Mila J. My Main. Mila J | Length: 03 The one that's sharing these drinks, dat my main The one celebrating her birthday, dat my main Yeah that's my number 1 chick, dat my main The one that always had my back, dat my main When me and my bae broke up, dat my main She beat a chick up on sight, dat my main And don't let her get turnt up, dat my. Listen to b a d l i l b i t t y by 🦋 N a k i y a S 🦋 on Apple Music. Stream songs including "Tap In", "Act Up" and more. Mila J Jamila Akiko Aba Chilombo, known as Mila J (born November 18, ), is an American singer, songwriter, rapper and dancer. She is the older sister of R&B singer Jhéne Aiko and is known for being in Prince's video for "Diamonds and Pearls" and appearing on tracks by .